It's not really a big deal. I practically raised one of the two boys and both he and his buddy are sweet and respectful kids. However, the way my mother just offered me up for lunch with them was hilarious. "You should call Sabila baji during the week and she'll treat you to lunch in the city." Baji is older sister in Urdu.
I really love my mom (I am not at all trying to be sarcastic here. I swear. She's just such a great, unique and mighty personality. I truly love her).