Both of my brothers have settled into significant other-hood with their lovely significant others.
The frequency of my parents noting "Wouldn't-it-have-been-nice-if-Sabila-also-had-someone-to-invite-to-dinner/brunch/whatever" has, as a result, increased tremendously.
I often wonder why the hell I'm still single. The answer is, of course, pretty obvious: I have none of the fortitude necessary to survive the emotional rigors of the dating world and so I choose being a non-contender over having my heart broken.
Surely, this is a curse that's doomed me to a life of spinsterhood, to be spent in the company of cats and dogs and, of course, the cats and dogs will make my allergy eyes rain down a constant deluge of tears.
What a depressing and wussy choice, indeed.
Contrary to the overwhelmingly despondent tone of this post, my readers should know that I had a most lovely day today! Just wanted to throw that out there!
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Your brothers date? Doesn't significant other mean girlfriend or boyfriend?
why is this so hard. Ask you parents ask your brothers and family to find a good boy for you. No breaking hearts just settle down. Put same efforts into finding a suitable boy that you put into your work and this blogging. Spinning around is no good.
Defense Phase 2 Auntie
Anonymous 1: Um, yah.
Oh dears! It is apparents that no good boy will want you if your brothers are doing such bad things with these womens. No I understand why Sabilak is still a spinster. No good family wants her because of this. Please tell your brothers to ship-shape up so Sabilka can find a nice boy.
Defense Phase 2 Auntie
The reason I was asking is because I do know that dating is haram in Islam.
If you are not interested in dating than find a man the same way. Then you both will be on the same page and holding similar values etc. It is always a good idea to marry someone of similar nature...Not that it is very easy to find that.
Anonymous who thinks dating is haram: I guess we're screwed then.
What's so wrong with Spinsterhood? If you don't want to "settle down", then just ignore all that silly cultural/familial pressure and don't.
I hate to make generalizations, I really do, but for example if you like arrogant men a white man will fit the bill... It's the truth unfortunately. Don't even get me started on geeky white men. *rollseyes* All I am saying is you will be surprised and in a bad way...
Spinsterhood is fine as long as you have lovers.
Hey you second posting. You are not Defense phase 2 auntie. You are a faking. Do not use my name. Find your own name Kamina!
are your brothers others desis or non desis. Please elaborate.
Anonymous: Why does that even matter?
That means that they are dating non desis. And you are right it does not matter.
so no more faking. Defense Phase 2 auntie will be signing into it.
defense phase 2 auntie
JV: But I sorta do want to "settle down."
Nusrat: but that must get old, no...? Or maybe not.
Wait! Fati, is that you? Are you my Defense Phase 2 Auntie? Wait, are you Fatima from Colorado?
No i am not from Colorados. i needed to sign since the kamina was imposterating me writing things i would never.
Defense Phase 2 Auntie
Auntie:
Will you translate "kamina" for our ghora readers? I know it's a cuss word but have no idea what it means...
I am surprised that your parents approve of your brothers dating.
If it gets played out then you find another lover.
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